Mourners honor 3 theater victims

Ohio,Texas, Colorado cities pay tribute

Samantha Yowler (right) pays her final respects to boyfriend Matt McQuinn at his funeral Saturday in Springfield, Ohio.
Samantha Yowler (right) pays her final respects to boyfriend Matt McQuinn at his funeral Saturday in Springfield, Ohio.

— The woman whom Matt McQuinn loved and whose life he saved by taking three bullets for her wept as pastors spoke of his heroism and sacrifice during his funeral Saturday, and of the senselessness of the shooting rampage at a Colorado movie theater where he and 11 others were killed a week ago.

Mourners packed a church in this western Ohio town where McQuinn came from, while family and friends gathered in San Antonio on the same day to remember Jessica Ghawi and a private funeral service was held at Buckley Air Force Base in Aurora, Colo., for Staff Sgt. Jesse Childress.

More funerals are set for this week.

When gunfire broke out in the Aurora, Colo., theater, Mc-Quinn, 27, dove in front of his girlfriend, Samantha Yowler, and was shot three times.

Yowler, who was shot in the knee and survived, arrived at McQuinn’s funeral on crutches Saturday and wept quietly with his parents and other family members during the funeral. Neither she nor his parents addressed Maiden Lane Church of God.

Pastor Herb Shaffer, who is also McQuinn’s uncle, said his nephew had been a gift to his family since he was born and that his actions in Colorado were just one example of his selflessness.

He spoke of how McQuinn called his mother three times the day before she had surgery because he was upset that he couldn’t be there in person and wanted to make sure she was OK.

When McQuinn was just 7, Shaffer said, he was once so concerned that his younger cousin wasn’t having a good day that he put his arm around her to try to make her feel better.

Then he talked about Mc-Quinn’s greatest sacrifice of all, saving Yowler, whom Shaffer described as his nephew’s best friend and the love of his life.

“In moments of crisis, true character comes out,” he said. “His immediate response was to protect the woman he loved.

“Matt’s death is a sudden loss, one that has produced many questions in your minds,” Pastor Dan Fiorini said.

Shaffer told mourners that the shooting forever changed them.

“Our lives will never be the same,” he said. “The words Aurora, Cinema 16 shooting, Batman, will never mean the same thing, and we’ll be reminded of Matt every time we hear them.”

Mourners at Ghawi’s funeral also touched briefly on the massacre.

“If this coward could have done this with this much hate, imagine what we can do with this much love,” her brother told the church in San Antonio.

But most of the service focused on the life and energy of the aspiring sports journalist.

“What we will not do today is focus on how she left us,” said Peter Burns, a friend from Colorado, reading a statement from Ghawi’s mother, Sandy. “Jess was a force to be reckoned with. She was a jolt of lightning. A whirlwind. A Labrador puppy running clumsily with innocent joy.”

Ghawi’s boyfriend, Jay Meloff, noted that others described her as “a tough, redheaded spitfire,” and she was, but that he also saw “a beautiful, warm-hearted and passionate woman with a capacity for love. ... She was as mushy as they come.”

He said they were looking forward to building a future together, and he also encouraged others to do as she did and “live each day fully.”

Ghawi was a pretty, blueeyed redhead who moved to Colorado about a year ago. She had survived a June 2 shooting at a Toronto mall that left two dead and several wounded. She blogged about the experience, writing that it reminded her “how fragile life was.”

After the funeral for Childress, 29, about 200 people attended a private burial service at Fort Logan National Cemetery southwest of Denver, Veterans Affairs spokesman Paul Sherbo said.

Friends and colleagues have described the Air Force cybersystems operator as a good friend, experienced and knowledgeable. Childress was from Thornton, Colo., and worked at Buckley Air Force Base.

Information for this article was contributed from Dallas by Linda Stewart Ball of The Associated Press.

Front Section, Pages 5 on 07/29/2012

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