Happy birthday. It will fill with you with pride to realize that you've done the work necessary to arrive at a destination you hoped for many years ago. Next, you'll help loved ones with their plans and further advance your own.
ARIES (March 21-April 19): To provide yourself with comfort is more important than you're making it, and not quite as as easy as it would seem. This will involve some trial and error. Commit to the work. When you're comfortable, you shine.
TAURUS (April 20-May 20): The reason blame is so toxic is that it renders the blamer helpless. If the problem is someone else's fault, then that's the person who has the power to fix it. Those who claim responsibility also claim power.
GEMINI (May 21-June 21): Align yourself with people who get measureable results and be one of them yourself. Feelings are fickle. Chasing them around will be tiring, confusing and pointless. Focus instead on improvements you can track.
CANCER (June 22-July 22): Whatever you're avoiding, it's exactly the thing that's going to make you stronger and more capable. Face it and handle it. There's no promise it will be easy, but you'll be better for it, guaranteed.
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Just as it is human to fear what is different and be drawn to the safety of what is similar, it is also human (and very you) to get curious and do the complete opposite today.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): The dilemma you face today warrants discussion. Bring a few people in on it, like a think tank. It just so happens that the more points of view you get, the more clarity you'll have.
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23): Even though you want to adhere to some new behavioral standards, you're already pretty awesome. You model values that you don't even realize you're modeling. You've held them so long that they're a part of who you are.
SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21): What is the cost of inaction? Look at that closely because it's higher than you think. When you tally it up all that's lost by not making a move, you'll find it to be a terrible and needless expense.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Unrealistic deadlines turn up the stress to a level that's neither productive nor healthy. Whatever it is you're trying to do, give yourself more time and fatter margins for error.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Angry feelings are the emotional body's attempt at feeling powerful. Unfortunately, the same anger that makes a person feel powerful can prevent them from actually being powerful.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): There's room for differing opinions. More than one can be right. Also, it's really OK to have some conflict over matters. If you deny conflict, it remains. Accept and resolve it.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Just as I.Q. can ebb and flow, emotional I.Q. changes with environmental factors, experience and education. Some are born with an impressive capacity to understand feelings, but emotional intelligence still takes work.
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