I didn't watch the Super Bowl. I haven't in a long while, even for the commercials (besides, the EDS "Herding Cats" commercial from 2000 will always be the best one in my view). I instead spent the day cat-sitting fur-nephew Charlie and watching movies.
And chuckling over reactions on Facebook and elsewhere to the Super Bowl halftime show. Really, it doesn't matter who performs, there will be complaints, whether it's racy content (like pregnant Rihanna and her crotch this year, or the infamous Janet Jackson-Justin Timberlake show in 2004 that prompted 540,000 FCC complaints), charges of "race-baiting" (like Beyonce's 2016 show) or whatever else strikes people as outrageous.
Because that's the point. Outrage is what drives so much of society now. Where once a great many of us could claim to be well-measured in our reactions, it seems more have given in to the outrage machine that generates clicks and views like mad (literally, sometimes).
Which reminds me of a story one of my instructors in college used to tell his classes. A woman called the television station where he was working one night, quite upset with what was being shown. He had answered the phone, being one of the few people in the building at the time. He said he told her: "Ma'am, there's a couple of knobs on your TV. You can change the channel, or you can turn it off."
Ignoring that that sort of comment to a customer might get you fired these days, it's still advice to take to heart. No one's forcing you to watch something that offends you except for you. I mean, unless you're being held against your will and forced to watch it with eyes held open, à la "A Clockwork Orange."
I'm not a fan of Adam Sandler. If something comes on with him in it, I can choose to not watch it. That's the beauty of a country like this. You're free to do what you want to do for the most part, as long as it's legal and doesn't hurt others. My not thinking Sandler is funny is not enough reason to wage a campaign trying to keep him from performing, and I'd just be wasting my time. There are far more important things to be outraged about ... like, say, an attack on the Capitol to try to overturn election results, or the relative ease of getting your hands on a gun when you really have no business doing so.
By all means, complain. That's sort of the bread and butter for the page you're reading right now. Just remember that not every complaint is meritorious, nor is every complaint genuine. Some--shocking, I know--are made simply to drive audiences to watch, click or whatever, and outrage is easier to stoke than thought.
And when that outrage comes with convenient talking points that no one cares enough to fact-check or expand upon, it leads to me having to reject letters, sometimes in the middle of a letter drought (c'mon, at least cite your source; then I can give you some leeway).
Matt Lewis wrote in July 2019 on the Daily Beast: "Is it just me, or lately have Americans been living their lives just waiting for the other shoe to drop? You don't have to be a sociologist to know that something is wrong with the world as we know it. Despite relative peace and prosperity, nobody really seems happy. Our culture is fraying. Our politics is coming unglued. We could probably generate a long list of factors that have contributed to this malaise and apathy. But I'm starting to wonder: Is America's outrage machine--social media platforms, political activists and agitators, and cable news--tearing this country apart by incentivizing (and monetizing) conflict?"
Little did he know then that Jan. 6, 2021, would happen, but it seems foreshadowed looking at that column now. We're stuck in "an unvirtuous cycle," Lewis wrote. "One side of the political aisle does something to outrage us. We can't avoid seeing it, nor can we avoid wrongly assuming that this is representative of the other 'tribe.' In some cases, outrageous behavior creates a backlash, whereby we are drawn closer to our side of the political aisle. In other cases, outrageous acts spark retaliation, thus igniting a whole new round of outrage and outrage backlash."
And with 24/7 cable news and social media, rest assured that the outrage will be spread, especially if it brings in higher ratings for the purveyors of that outrage.
The thing is, we don't have to take part in it. We can, as my radio/TV instructor said, change the channel or turn the TV off, limit our exposure to social media outrage, and not spread unchecked talking points. As long as there's an audience for something, it will continue.
Times change. Where once marching bands and Up With People entertained at Super Bowl halftime, now it's popular music artists ... because Michael Jackson's 1993 halftime show showed the NFL it could keep eyes on the TV instead of whatever snacks need to be refilled.
Don't like RiRi or Maroon 5 or Shakira? You don't have to watch. I mean, unless the only reason you're watching is so you can participate in the outrage machine.
Herding cats is much more fun, if you ask me.
Assistant Editor Brenda Looper is editor of the Voices page. Email her at blooper@adgnewsroom.com. Read her blog at blooper0223.wordpress.com.