Looking to start a conversation with kids about safe alcohol use? The federal Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration offers the following tips as part of their "Talk. They Hear You." campaign:
1. Send a message of disapproval about underage drinking.
According to the group, more than 80 percent of children 10-18 name their parents as the leading influence in their decision to drink or not to drink. The clearer that parents are in their message, the better.
2. Explain that you care about their happiness and health.
"Young people are more likely to listen when they know you're on their side," according to the organization. Try explaining to children that you want them to avoid alcohol because it's a more healthful and safer choice.
3. Be a good source of information about alcohol.
Children will often hear bad information from their peers about alcohol. Let them know they can come to you for not only advice, but to answer questions they have about alcohol.
4. Pay attention.
The agency puts it this way: "You want to show you're keeping an eye on your child, because young people are more likely to drink if they think no one will notice."
5. Help your child develop strategies to avoid alcohol.
Several resources are listed on the group's website, underagedrinking.samhsa.gov, to help parents discuss peer pressure and temptation with their kids, along with how to help their children plan to avoid alcohol.
Family on 09/23/2015